Warning: I
am
not a psychiatrist. This is not a professional essay for the medical profession. You are
merely jumping into one mans opinion of how things work in the human mind and body.
It may not be accurate, but it makes for interesting reading. Proceed at your own risk.
Life operates on a system of cycles. The electrical circuits of your
brain race madly at times of peak performance and slowly simmer down into an almost
dormant state. The chemical secretions of your body ebb and flow like the tides. Our
emotions are subject to inevitable mood swings. Your body pumps energy juices into your
system and makes you feel like you could work or play forever. Those energy chemicals get
depleted and you feel like you want to die. Every day life is like a Wall Street stock
chart - full of peaks and valleys.
These valley times we call the blues - the
blahs - or bad hair days. We all have our down times. No one is totally
exempt from being under the weather once in a while. We cant eliminate
tiredness and discouragement completely, but these words might help minimize the strength
and intensity of the basement moods we get into sometimes.
Some people are prone to sink into deep valleys of depression. They
tend to stay in the valley longer than an average person. Eventually they sink into
long-term clinical depression. Occasionally, someone ends up in a box-canyon of despair
and never comes out. The pain and hopelessness of their situation causes them to take
their own lives. Im hoping that with a few simple words we might be able to help
avert such a catastrophe in the future.
Part of the solution to any problem is a greater understanding of
the problem. Heres a laymans understanding of whats involved in
some forms of depression.
Thoughts Trigger Emotions
Emotions activate chemicals
Chemicals create reactions.
One man begins his work with a noticeable lack of energy. He worries
that his wife might someday be unfaithful to him. He wonders if this is the day. He sees
an imaginary picture of what might be taking place. He feels an intense jealousy. He jumps
up and leaves the job without saying why. On the way home, he is pumped full of rage, hate
and pure adrenaline energy. Bursting through the doorway, he sees his wife at the sink
doing the morning dishes. The man should be relieved, but instead he is disappointed. He
wanted to bust heads. He was ready to kill. It takes him over two hours to wind down from
that energy high which was produced by a chain reaction of thoughts and
feelings.
Another man thought he had won the 12 million dollar lottery. That
thought triggered an exceptional emotional reaction. His body went into tailspins of
ecstasy. He became a whirling dervish. (Whatever that is.) Nobody could keep him down.
Well, nobody except the brother-in-law who took time to read the numbers again. The man
had mis-read one number. He did not have the winning ticket!
In one split second - his thoughts triggered an immense let-down. We
can understand that, but for three days the man went around in a state of despair. If he
would have read the numbers right the first time, he would have experienced a very slight
let-down, an expected let-down. But, because he felt what it was like to win 12 million
dollars, he reacted just as though someone had robbed him of that which was rightfully
his. His thoughts kept his disappointment alive and his brain kept pumping out the wrong
kind of juices. In one moments time, a mans thoughts had catapulted him to the
highest peak of emotional fervor that he had ever known - and a few moments later, his
thoughts put him in a basement of depression and despair. Dont tell me that thoughts
dont trigger emotions.
Emotions Activate Chemicals
Answer one question for me. Is blood a chemical? Why does a mans
face get red when he is angry? A thought triggers anger and anger activates a series of
physical reactions.
Ask someone an embarrassing question. Watch their face turn beet red;
not from anger, but from embarrassment. A thought triggered an emotion; the emotion
activated a chemical; the chemical produced a reaction.
Practical jokers delight in projecting fear thoughts into their
victims. The sound of a bear in the bushes triggered fear in one mans mind. His body
flew into automatic response mode and he peppered the bushes with high velocity bullets.
One of the two practical jokers lay dead, while the other was scared out of his mind,
unable to say a word. Fear made one man go into action. Shock and fear together paralyzed
the other man. Thoughts trigger emotions and emotions have a powerful effect on the body.
Severe clinical depression is often caused by the depletion of a
necessary chemical in the brain. Strong drugs can replace the missing chemical and bring
some relief. If those drugs are taken over a long period of time the chemical balance can
be restored. That person can return to normal and live a depression-free life.
The reasons for the chemical imbalance varies. One person may have a
genetic pre-disposition toward such a chemical imbalance. In other words, he was born with
his problem. He inherited his problem like people inherit other diseases. Medical science
can now prevent some inherited diseases from occurring if they can detect their presence
soon enough. They can sometimes modify the intensity of the disease through treatment or
even cure it completely. The same is true concerning an inherited tendency toward
depression.
One interesting thing is: Psychiatrists will admit that counseling and
group therapy can often restore the chemical balance just as drug therapy does, but over a
longer period of time. How can talking and listening restore brain chemicals? Well, I
believe it is simply due to the domino effect. Plant new thoughts into a patients
brain and you will begin to alter his emotions on a small scale. Good emotions produce
good chemicals. Repeat that process over and over again for a year and a half and
there it is! - the chemical structure of a persons mind and body has
changed also. The doctors will admit that the combination of drug therapy and verbal
therapy will often speed up the recovery time for those who suffer from clinical
depression. Why? Because, both elements have the power to reverse chemical imbalances that
cause depression.
Leave a negative man to himself and his thoughts will spiral him
downward into a mood of hopelessness and despair. Every time he re-thinks a situation his
mood cycle gets darker and gloomier. He has no capacity to think himself happy
or to think himself high. He cannot create the chemical changes he needs to
feel good. Once he activates the negative chemicals into his system, he feels worse and
that triggers darker thoughts and those thoughts trigger deeper despair and that activates
more negative chemical problems.
People who pull away from others while depressed, tend to feed on their
own thinking processes. If those thoughts are diseased thoughts, the disease only gets
worse and not better. But, if you can send a blue-mood person to the store -
that mood is often broken before they get home. Why? They were forced into polite
chit-chat. Such conversation pulls their mind out of the negative mood they were in. There
are times when I wanted to stay angry at my wife, but company came. When they left I
couldnt go back to being angry again.
Take a depressed person fishing or to the opera or into any activity
which they enjoy and you will help break the spell they are under. At first they
wont even want to do the things they normally enjoy. Thats because the record
player of their mind is stuck in a negative groove. You have to shake the record player to
make it jump track and get into a normal playing pattern. Like a broken record, some
people will always regress toward depression at the memory of certain events or
situations.
I had a friend who was a perfect guinea pig for this illustration. He
could be having a happy time until I brought up a certain topic. I have never in all of my
life seen a face change so quickly and so drastically. One minute he looked like he was at
a picnic and the next moment he looked like hed been to a funeral. It wasnt
just one topic which would have this effect on him. He would react the same way anytime he
was reminded of various elements relating to his past.
If I would have been a manipulative enemy I could have driven that kid
to suicide. Instead, I looked at his countenance and fed him good thoughts, uplifting
thoughts, positive thoughts and before long he was out of that negative groove. Sometimes
he would call me on the phone and his first sentence would tell me if he was up or down.
Time after time, I would use words and good thoughts to pull him back up where he needed
to be. I was teaching him to think differently about lifes circumstances.
Eventually all those seeds took root. He would often call and tell me
how he had successfully faced certain situations. My words from the past had now become a
part of his own way of thinking. He would tell me how he had helped others by repeating
those positive statements and by explaining the positive principles behind the words.
Little by little he was minimizing his tendency to create a chemical imbalance in his
brain.
Medical science has proven that bitter, hateful thoughts trigger a tiny
excess secretion of certain chemicals into the body. A few episodes of feeling
hate do not have the power to physically harm a person. However, over a long period
of time, the accumulation of those chemicals in the body will produce physical infirmities
and affliction. Thats a proven fact. Check it out for yourself.
I say that to let you know that negative thinking does not
automatically put you in a mental ward of the state hospital, but it can and does have
its long-term effects on your being. Negative thoughts alone do not create
depression. Its the negative emotions which do the most damage.
Sunlight and Mood Changes
People in depression tend to stay indoors and to themselves.
Thats the last thing on the earth they need. If they get out into the sunlight, a
chemical reaction automatically takes place without anyone else being around.
One town in Alaska has the highest rate of suicides of any town in our
nation. Why? People there are afflicted by S.A.D. - Seasonal Affective Disorder, which is
caused by the long, dark days with very little sunlight. Another reason is the cold.
Severe cold makes people want to stay indoors even in daylight hours. They now sell a
special light to counteract that aspect of deep depression. Train yourself to become an
early morning riser and you will probably help yourself immensely.
Dont forget diet!
Food that you eat is broken down and passed into the bloodstream as
chemicals. Diet alone can have its effect on your moods. Im not a dietician. I
dont have any facts to give you or any herbs to sell you. I just know that in the
past few months Ive been experimenting with different nutritional supplements. Many
of them have a definite effect on my system. Some of them give me more energy. Energy
affects our mental state of being. Some of them improve circulation and improved
circulation speeds extra oxygen to the brain. Exercise does the same thing. Thats
why depressed people are often urged to get out and do something. Increased activity,
increases circulation. More blood to the brain means faster delivery of chemicals to the
brain.
Shall I say it again? Im not a medical expert. Im merely a
motivator. But, I really believe that someone with a tendency toward depression can keep
from sinking into clinical depression later in life by paying attention to some of the
things Ive said today.
I believe I could feed someone a verbal diet of positive words,
thoughts and concepts over a period of time and radically affect their future. I believe
someone else could feed them a daily diet of negative words and create the opposite effect
in them. Thats why it is so very important to develop positive reactions to negative
people. It preserves your sanity and helps maintain your own sense of well being - in
spite of their attitudes. Besides, they desperately need the positive influence of your
cheerful countenance in their lives. Sure, I know. They often seem to have an unreasonable
urge to bring you down to their level, but thats all the more reason why you should
be determined to hold your ground. Theres no future in downward spirals and
low-level misery. People who live in basements have a terrible view.
Lets move to the housetops
where we can see
forever!