Yes, I'm bad - But, not totally bad!
And, not forever!
Truth is truth. If you are bad, you are bad. We can
not call bad, good. Why should we lie to ourselves or to each other?
However, no one is totally bad. Everyone has some
good traits. Four big red X's on a test paper does not make the other 46
answers wrong, also.
Look at the good points in your life and commend
yourself for the things you are doing right. Then, get to work on those
failure areas. Bring your grade up. Make improvements. Struggle to
become more and better than you were yesterday.
Everybody in the world starts out with imperfections
and flaws in their lives. People, who were once worse than you, are now
much better than you - why? Because, they knew their state of being
bad was merely a temporary problem. They were motivated to
change that - and they did.
No, it wasn't easy for them and it won't be easy for
you. The people who always want things easy are the ones who end up
living a hard life. A man thinks it's easier to steal than work - and he
sits and rots in a prison cell. That's hard to take. And if he doesn't
change his attitude, life will only get harder and harder for him.
The pathway to 'better' is through effort and
struggle. Millions of people have been bad, weak, and messed up in
thousands of ways. But, they didn't stay that way. Bad doesn't have
to be a permanent condition. It is only a temporary problem for
those who want it to be temporary.
Do you want to stay just like you are forever - and
ever - and ever and ever? I'm sure you don't. But, you are never going
to just wake up one morning and be changed.
You are going to have to want that changepoint
your mind in the direction of changeseek for the 'recipe' for changeask
for help in the process of being changedand keep on struggling until
you are changed.
Change is a choice. One choice after another.
If you don't choose to go for the good - then, yes, bad could become a
forever thing. And that would be a terrible shame - especially since
there was so much potential for good ahead of you. Make sure the bad in
you is only a now thing!
Look for the answers you need
and keep on looking
until you find.